My bf said goodbye to her late uncle/u/Away_Flower8042

The Paranormal | January 8, 2023

My bf said goodbye to her late uncle/u/Away_Flower8042

So my (f33) best friend (f33) asked me to share this here after long discussions , since she doesn’t have an account.

Her uncle passed away after a year long fight with cancer, a few weeks before Christmas. They lived in different countries, and could only speak on the phone. They were very close, he was her favourite uncle and the youngest. He was quite religious, liked to go to church and all that. At the same time , he was quite independent and proud, he hid his illness for months, he never wanted to be a burden. In the last moths in the hospital, he was grumpy towards everyone, he was ashamed to be seen like that.

2 weeks before he passed, my bf had this dream where he was in a bad mood, refusing to see anyone, just repeating he needs to go to church before Christmas. My friend suggested to his wife to bring a priest, since he was so religious, maybe it’d do him good. In the dream , the wife got so offended, cause doing that was accepting he’s dying, and she was refusing to believe that, she was still planning to take him home. Knowing the wife and the moods, my friend forgot the dream knowing it’d have the exact same reaction.

2 weeks later, he was really bad, so my friend suggested the priest thing to his wife, and obviously, she received the expected offended reaction.

That night, my friend had a rough night, describing it like she wasn’t sure if she was sleeping or awake ( she’s not familiar with lucid dreaming) and she “dreamed” she was in the hospital room with her uncle, he was up and well, he looked good and healthy, he thanked her, hugged her and kind of said take care, like a farewell. He was in peace and well, and my friend hugged him and kind of understood.

Next morning, she woke up to her mom crying. The first think my bf asked was : did he pass at 2am (when she had the dream) ? Her mom was hysterical in her pain, and was like wtf of a question is that?

She later found out : that night he got worse. The wife desperate, asked him if he’d like to talk to a priest ( being pre-holidays and all) and he accepted. They called and the priest came in the middle of the night. He talked with him for like an hour, and when they were done, he passed immediately in front of the priest, holding his hand .

Now. I believe my friend somehow communicated with her uncle, sent him the priest he asked for, and helped him move on. She had the chance to say goodbye.

She’s not familiar with lucid dreaming and lots of stuff, so we thought someone here could explain better what she experienced.

(Something similar happened to me years ago, she knows about it, but she’s not familiar with it and she’s doesn’t understand, she’s overwhelmed).

Thank you for any input and light! Lots of love!

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[link] [comments]So my (f33) best friend (f33) asked me to share this here after long discussions , since she doesn’t have an account. Her uncle passed away after a year long fight with cancer, a few weeks before Christmas. They lived in different countries, and could only speak on the phone. They were very close, he was her favourite uncle and the youngest. He was quite religious, liked to go to church and all that. At the same time , he was quite independent and proud, he hid his illness for months, he never wanted to be a burden. In the last moths in the hospital, he was grumpy towards everyone, he was ashamed to be seen like that. 2 weeks before he passed, my bf had this dream where he was in a bad mood, refusing to see anyone, just repeating he needs to go to church before Christmas. My friend suggested to his wife to bring a priest, since he was so religious, maybe it’d do him good. In the dream , the wife got so offended, cause doing that was accepting he’s dying, and she was refusing to believe that, she was still planning to take him home. Knowing the wife and the moods, my friend forgot the dream knowing it’d have the exact same reaction. 2 weeks later, he was really bad, so my friend suggested the priest thing to his wife, and obviously, she received the expected offended reaction. That night, my friend had a rough night, describing it like she wasn’t sure if she was sleeping or awake ( she’s not familiar with lucid dreaming) and she “dreamed” she was in the hospital room with her uncle, he was up and well, he looked good and healthy, he thanked her, hugged her and kind of said take care, like a farewell. He was in peace and well, and my friend hugged him and kind of understood. Next morning, she woke up to her mom crying. The first think my bf asked was : did he pass at 2am (when she had the dream) ? Her mom was hysterical in her pain, and was like wtf of a question is that? She later found out : that night he got worse. The wife desperate, asked him if he’d like to talk to a priest ( being pre-holidays and all) and he accepted. They called and the priest came in the middle of the night. He talked with him for like an hour, and when they were done, he passed immediately in front of the priest, holding his hand . Now. I believe my friend somehow communicated with her uncle, sent him the priest he asked for, and helped him move on. She had the chance to say goodbye. She’s not familiar with lucid dreaming and lots of stuff, so we thought someone here could explain better what she experienced. (Something similar happened to me years ago, she knows about it, but she’s not familiar with it and she’s doesn’t understand, she’s overwhelmed). Thank you for any input and light! Lots of love! submitted by /u/Away_Flower8042 [link] [comments]

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